"If you cannot manage yourself, you have no business managing others." -- GeraldWeinbergQuotes
A page on self awareness, management of the emotions (e.g. impulse control), development of proper internal guiding principles, etc.
On Choosing your battles
"The only conquests which are permanent and leave no regrets are our conquests over ourselves" -- Napoleon Bonaparte
"First we form habits, then they form us. Conquer your bad habits or they will conquer you" -- Rob Gilbert
On Changes that matter
seen the wordings of the SerenityPrayer lately?
"He who cannot change the very fabric of his thought will never be able to change reality, and will never, therefore, make any progress" -- Anwar Sadat
"Change your thoughts, and you change your world" -- Norman Vincent Pearle
More quotes can be found at http://en.thinkexist.com/quotations/change/
SelfDeceit - Don't get too good at it
"The true hypocrite is the one who ceases to perceive his deception, the one who lies with sincerity." quote from Andre Gide
SelfManagement of Behavior
for information regarding meditation as a mechanism to management of anger, see http://www.bellaonline.com/subjects/4970.asp
SelfManagement under adversity
A few years ago, after the popularization of EQ (EmotionalIntelligence quotient) there arose a new term called AdversityQuotient. It was said people with good social skills may behave badly (compared to average)when exposed to stressful conditions for a long time. The social skills helped the people as long as the threshold for breaking down is not reached. And some people have higher threshold than others, or react more mildly even though they are not normally considered to be better skilled in relationship matters.
One resource for stress management can be seen at http://news.inq7.net/common/print.php?index=1&story_id=39942&site_id=28
What and where are the exact quote for following? Links please
You may not be able to change the environment, but you can manage how you respond in the environment
SelfManagement and RecentChangesJunkie
I hate to label myself as one. I have lots of other ways for rationalizing my wiki behavior. When WardsWiki started to have blocks in Mar05 all kinds of withdrawl symptoms surface. Especially at times (so random) that I cannot even access existing pages.
It is time for me to reread the page I have started on SelfManagement (from Google cache if necessary).
Reading material
See also EmotionalIntelligence, UnmoteMyEyeAlready