How To Talk To Management

...if you have to. :-)

A colleague and I would like to run a workshop at OtTwoThousand on HowToTalkToManagement. The motivation is that many of us, especially me, are not very good at getting our case across to non-technical management. The idea is to run a role-playing session so that technical people can get a sense of what the view is from the other side.

The rough plan is to break into groups of about four, giving everyone a role description and a set of constraints. One or more of the four will be technicians trying to get something approved. The others could be product managers, senior management, finance directors, shareholders, etc. The scenario should build up a network of conflicting forces so that everyone in the group is subject to different pressures.

We'd welcome suggestions, experiences, arguments, and other general feedback.

-- SteveFreeman

Talking to management is much like any communication. You must know your audience (I think role playing is one very good way to teach this). You need to speak in the language of the audience and address the concerns of the audience. For management, this is often addressing issues such as cost, schedule, manpower, risk, and benefit. How can we best balance the trade-offs between these aspects? And remember, managers are people, too. Sounds like an interesting workshop.

Well, it depends on the kind of management you have. Management usually do not understand:

The IT roles (who does what),
and what's really done (the esoteric binary programs).

I often used the "3 slides method". Imagine you try to explain something to a manager to get some decision (usually that the manager validates your proposal while knowing enough not to feel betrayed in case of a problem). Create 3 slides with the following content:

Slide 1: what is the problem.
Slide 2: what the other companies are doing (this is where you can manipulate a bit the "market standpoint" but just a bit, because some managers will remember the arguments to be able to defend the proposition to their own boss - try to be fair on this one).
Slide 3: where the company you work for is and where you recommend to go (the same direction than the market or what you described the market to be).

Important: those slides must sell one and only one idea! Yeah, I know, it's hard...

You can have two kinds of reactions depending of the kind of management:

Management with technical background: They will probably try to challenge you, not because they understand something to what you are showing but to assess that yu are serious and to try to feel how confident you are with the proposition. Try to know more about their technical background to find the appropriate comparisons. The more the manager will be able to compare with a successful past experience, the better. Explain slowly the one idea with different angles. Try to exhibit some direct benefits for the manager (for most of them are interested in their person first).
Management without technical background: this is a difficult one. You can plan only to go through one slide per session (30 to 45 minutes) and come back again and again (like some kind of teacher). Don't hesitate to draw a lot of things and to use comparisons (with the town and streets and buildings and houses, for instance).

Warning: one danger is the manager that seems to understand and that did not at all... This is quite rough. After some big investment on your side, you discover in a big meeting that your manager totally missed the point. Wahoo, that's bad! But well, don't get discouraged too quickly. Go back to your slides and re-do them until they get the point.

The most important advice: never consider talking to management as a waste of time. Just accept that learning HowToTalkToManagement will take you longer than to code everything you try to sell them!''

How about HowToTalkToBusinessAnalysts? too?