Negotiating Pattern Language

Negotiating is an art, and so depends a lot on context and mindset. Still these are patterns that many feel are tried and true:

And, for relevant GameTheory:


You could also read GettingToYes. Arguably the best book on negotiation ever. -- JohnBrewer

"Arguably"? :-)

You should also take a look at StartWithNo by Jim Camp. It is my opinion that Start With No is better. -- StephanBranczyk


Fundamentals of Negotiation is an excellent quick summary of the area, and good to scan before setting out.

http://www.anu.edu.au/people/Roger.Clarke/SOS/FundasNeg.html


If you're negotiating about your salary, how do you know if you're being underpaid relative to the market? See SalarySurvey.

If you never had to break a negotiation because you refused an offer, it means that on average you're being underpaid. Many employers make hundreds of low-ball offers for a position, just to see if someone is desperate enough not to refuse their offers.

Many employers make hundreds of low-ball offers for a position They do? I've never worked for one. The saving would be outweighed by having to do hundreds more interviews.


A negotiating pattern that I have been a part of is, masses of people involved in the process, helps you win. Is there writing on this one? -- MarkDilley


Because it had little to do with negotiating and much more to do with employment, I moved ThinkTwoJobsAhead to CategoryEmployment.


CategoryNegotiation CategoryRoadmap


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