TheServant, on p. 37-38, lists ten qualities that people with authority (people who are influential, ones who other people will want to follow; see PowerVersusAuthority) should have:
These are still applicable today, because they are almost timeless. The book from which it is extracted is still highly ranked at 3884 at Amazon.
I only fit about 3. I guess I'm an asshole.
Not necessarily. Which 3?
See also HowToWinFriendsAndInfluencePeople